Mars and venus – Starting over (John Gray)

A love endure forever is something that we also aspire. But if for any reason that emotional relationship not continue anymore, then you will have to face a new era with a lot of physical disturbance.

The loss, broke in love can instantly transform our life. Although what to do from the beginning, but the suddenly facing the emptiness on the upcoming journey makes it not out of nervousness. I noticed I just lost the most familiar things, sacred, just before future embarrassing not to know. How does the mind in question when the heart filled with suffering.

Please spend some time with this book and realize you need to do to better life. What enthusiasm in his book men of Mars, Lady Venus-John Gray love found again written out after twenty eight years of accumulated experience to advise many people heal the wounds if love breakdown or bereavement.Although there is a different situation, but each has a common is unhappiness in love.

The solutions mentioned in the book each bring good results for many people, including the author himself. The experiences in life help you do better work in consulting, teaching, and more importantly-help John became a husband, a good father in the eyes of the children. The end of the journey beyond escape the pain, he realized that a lot of special gift for those who know the start and looking for true love.

Like to create a new life forced the labor pain, faced with loss, misfortune in life is extremely challenging to find happiness at the end of the road. Pass through this process, we will accumulate the precious life capital for a new life. After a few initial adjustments, everything will be easier, we will soon look back and see that all the pain he is only a memory.

The book is divided into three parts. The first part: Mars and Venus-Do from the beginning, mentioned the basic steps in the process of healing for both sexes. Part two titled: Venus-start comes to the difficulties women encounter in the process of rebuilding a relationship. The last part is the Mars-anew, presenting the challenges men commonly face.

Though the process to heal the wounds of our hearts is the same, but each one again encountering the challenges of its own. This requires each person needs to have insight about his situation, from which the best method option for yourself. Believe that you are never alone, because my life how people fall into the situation as we know it but they’ve overcome. They were living to continue loving.And we would also like!

Men of Mars, Venus woman-found love is the book written by the enthusiasm of a distress heart always want to bring to the wondrous for each relationship, as well as a gift the author wants to send to his life. Expect that it will be useful in the time you have to cope with the hard work of the heart.

The Other Guys (2010) – The insightful satire

The announcement is made we noisily. But a crash grotesque, absurd, so improbable that it is comically violent. It announces: The Other Guys, other types, it is others, not heroes. These, big mouths, mutts and outrageous heroes, those that offer the show suddenly great deeds and pyrotechnic effects are to sacrifice. Those natural momentum of the narrative would have put at the center of the film, those who had the stuff assumed and guaranteed to bring this true-false buddy movie, fail, miserably, carried too far by the same impulse, in fact, too far . Too far in fiction too far in action: hyperbole condemns them to a tragic end and sends this invincible hero to the bottom of a mound. Moreover, it is here that lies the comic spring, stuffing, this long dive following heavy bodies struggling against fatal gravity defying able to believe that, with the precepts of action movies, the simple natural laws.
This comically violent death is mourning the film. And trauma, which controls the conversion, otherwise the confusion of genres; the passage of the action film in the register of comedy …
Evacuated therefore the real heroes. Up to others, to those who remain, those who stood in the shade of demiurges the NYPD. Those who hide behind their computers to enter and leave police figures and statistics, to get excited about breaches of the Town Planning Code or chafe as to whether to stand for once, in the scope of action and field work. Those who were not and are not intended to be or become heroes. It will be up to them to prove themselves, without anyone having asked them anything. It will be up to them to plug the heroic empty, this gap in the narrative that becomes quickly and skillfully the heart and driving force. New York lost its first line: the reinforcements are called to take over and load. It includes the efforts that will be provided, the risks will be taken, the mistakes that result due to take too big clothes. This idea of ​​the center of the action those who were not there for those who are deprived of precisely this exhibition will be the first confusion, primitive architecture of laughter, on which the film will bet all along its course. And even where the purpose is meant seriously, when the moral of the story emerges in voice to the conclusion, to give value to the anonymous heroes, the “other guys” that we all are in our daily life. Again, this seems unfair enhancement incongruous as it appears in the middle of a series of misunderstandings.
And laughter to inhabit these untenable situations, where the role is played if it can not be assumed. These clowns too long sleeves are all profiles that do not coincide with the pretensions that drive.
This is also a constant in comic McKay as playing with appearances. The sensible is misleading and what is given to see is not really what is. Where laughter is above all a misunderstanding. The burly forties are all childish minds and retarded (Step Brothers, 2008) as well as specific figures on air and copies may be formidable and violent street warriors upon completion Direct (Anchorman, Legend of Ron Burgundy , 2004). Dichotomy between being and appearing: phenomenality characters from movies McKay is the pretext and comic narrative engine, the one who gives rhythm and tone comedy. Here are the other it is, not expected and hoped these heroes. Two losers, at least, it seems. Themselves are universe of contrasts and ambiguities. Mark Wahlberg, square and clenched jaws, one who rushes into action to find the light of his vocation, is only a lovesick ready to chain ends and capers to seduce his girlfriend again. Highlight of against type: demoted, he will find a new vocation balancing dance and regulating road traffic. Will Ferrell in unattractive servant of pusillanimous hides a charm that no woman can resist, which earned him a pimp liabilities and a beautiful woman (Eva Mendes). Add a two-headed police chief (Michael Keaton) that mixes brushes with his second job, as a salesman in a store kitchens and bathrooms. All confused and that becomes laughable, which is understood as the comic motif, it is ultimately the distinctions that emerge, contrasts occurring innocently smooth, without contradiction, essence of absurdity. One slice of normality with which this takes place is not. And divorce is more obvious between appearance and being, the formula is more efficient, laughter provoked.
See comedy closer, and apart from that the pigmented comic flashes, there remains a cumbersome side of the narration. Or at least what can be felt as a burden. The police investigation becomes a blurred background as the characters themselves wandering in search of fame and recognition, become entangled and scatter in confusion. But again, things should not be taken for what they are not. This detective story, improbable investigation is finally the grotesque media on which would-be heroes will make their teeth, an absurd and senseless.
This Kabbalah screenplay is mainly due to the critical discourse that it holds. Madoff, Golden Sachs, Lehman Brothers, Enron models are invoked to make sense of this nonsense inextricable. The police action frantically back the influence peddling runs, plays with the minutes of insider trading and transforms the Federal Reserve in the high-security prison. Shareholders are holders guns and financial investors, bent in their three parts, the AK-47 wielding perched on a combat helicopter. Crimes and offenses, even those who do feel and rhythm of action movies, are exposed on reams of paper and fit on the screens of traders that one death threat as if they were a vital cog in a major criminal conspiracy. There is also confusion, a mixture of genres to comedy that adds a solid reading value. At a time when financial crimes are devoid of legal actions, where each error resulted in the accomplice indulgence of others, speculators, those “other guys” in his shirt sleeves, camouflaged behind computer screens at manipulate economic figures and abstractions become thus the real criminals, like any drug baron guts.
Of course, there is the friendship, the nucleus of buddy movies, especially when they are in their most aped coarse features. Again, a constant emerges, the influence of Apatow for whom the condition is always a history of tension and reunion, of circumstantial breaks and renewal. In Step Brothers and Talladega Nights, friendship is generally a disappointment that do not survive the maladjustments of the protagonists. The actual vehicle and misunderstanding that are suffering that puts a strain on the couple. Ditto for The Other Guys, the duo is asked to disunite, to blame their inappropriate actions. But they will meet, will go beyond the persecution of too normative reality will impose their beliefs, aspirations, perhaps eventually, like the conclusion of Step Brothers, for gain some normalcy and, finally, to fit into the closed frame aspirations. This friendship will be regained back some normality and each, in its respective powers, find the right course of his duty, including police lieutenant, confused his collusion, citing casually TLC titles. Here, the formula of this new cinematic idea of ​​friendship in comedies US fits echoing the genre it parodies, the buddy movie. What makes him less assume its narrative coherence, unlike Step Brothers where she was a journey, a graduation. But it’s still the cruelty of events, to the inability of the characters to act in synchrony with the normality of the world (Wahlberg yelling he beautiful act properly, it fails every time …) d’s responsibility a divorce, a painful and sensible separation, although in these stories, all usually ends well.
The film eventually overthrow moreover, after many detours of as many dead ends. The losers earn stripes, prey on too big tops for them but do so with class and exacerbation of the very people whom they have succeeded. The conclusion reached introducing: those who stood in the shadow adopt the register of those they aspired to become, with reinforcement of explosions and mexican-standoff. The dramatic linchpin action movies, is no longer suffered but tends to be mastered. And if the final is not an excessive explosions and stunts, while chases are with Prius, appearances are deceptive and our –other guys turn out to be the right guys the film McKay expected. And we see things stay in the nonsense they left transpire, like a peacock who takes her top off in the sky.

Tiny cabbage – How to grow it

Tiny cabbage is grown in Europe, North America. It’s being available in Vietnam and It has grown in Dalat since the French colonial times, It is the kind of high-end products cater to the officials at the time but later then at least see, recently emerged.

Cabbage tree is tolerant, suitable for growing in the winter-spring in the North-Central and Central Highlands. The vegetable sprouts grow like buds by the spiral pattern along the stems, each leaf will produce a fruit like a miniature cabbage. Bitter, pungent odor, germ Brussels wealth concentration is also a super food supplement in the diet to fight cancer. Rich in folic acid, vitamin K, A, C help keep your brain sharp.

It only takes about 120-160 days from seed to harvest down cabbage is often used as the tiny salad, boiled, baked, sour salt discretion and taste. The dishes made from tiny cabbage most delicious by sweetness, refreshing, nutrient-rich, very good for health. We could feel the tasty and cruncy smell on it and more fiery than the big cabbage.

Tiny cabbage is an interesting suggestion for you to plant in the garden of the House just to see fit to eat. Planting steps as follows:

1. Preparation:

Seeds: buy seeds of Brassica Brussels sprouts in the store, the seeds are round and black sprouts rate 90%. Each tiny cabbage seed package references at about $ 2.


Pots and planted location: can use pots or styrofoam options area, if you plant in the House to note the height of the mature tree would from 80-120 cm for selecting appropriate planting and pots.

Land: arable land is the best cabbage meat, lightly sand or silt soils have neutral pH claims 5.5-6, can use the nutrition buy land in the store plants.

Light and temperature: cabbage, light requirements, the best temperature is between 15-20 degrees Celsius.

Cultivation time: can sowing year round, but the best is from late August of the calendar.

Seed treatment

The purchase of seeds should be clean, not diseases guarantee mold, termites.
For the amount of seeds planted wants to soak in warm water (30-40 degrees) within 2 hours. Then picked out seeds and 1 scarf (piece of cloth), incubated in a cool, dry place, avoid direct sunlight.(warm moist enough watering regularly)

2. Cultivation:

Ensure seeding ground speed as well as porous, well-drained soil should not sour, salty, soil contaminated with metal or some remnants of pesticides, soil pollution.

You can purchase coir in the shop selling flowers to bonsai nursery supplies seeds.
The dam is under the ground just to prepare, then prepare trays for seed. (no need to add any thing)
Proceed to reseed.

Sow the seeds have germinated in step ‘ 1 ‘ on the tray has prepared in the ‘ 2 ‘ each tray can land sown up to 3 seeds.
Sow on the surface and then take 1 less soil particle surface chips have just sown.
Then again for the warm moist irrigation sowing trays (moist enough and not to float off the ground seeds nursery).
Finally surface at all black plastic bag and tray to tray sown dry, airy place.
It’s best to sow seeds in trays, seed nursery to make sure the seeds are sprouting, finished seeding the massage hands lightly all over face for the land covering the seed and watered sufficiently warm.Cabbage tree in two cotyledons, after only about 5-10 days of cultivation is the will.

After 2-3 weeks, from 5-6 leaves the truth can come out. You should choose healthy plants for planting after the shark round will reach the best quality.

You want to plant trees in the form of cultivation: vertical direction to crops, how to row 30-40 cm, 15-25 cm. plant way trees Also could grow thicker than arbitrary long enough for developers tree 1 optimal way. Irrigated water soaked after planting.

3. Health care:

Watering: after hitting the tree growing up need watering, watering day 2 times in the early morning and afternoon cool until the tree clinging soil. Then just 2-3 days watering once.

Manure: to increase the quality of cabbage and increase resistance to pests, resistant to adverse weather, in addition to providing original fertilizer for the tree you need additional fertilizer leaves Middle microelements especially corn book period according to the recommended dosage on the package. This fertilizers are easy to purchase at the store.

Pests: common diseases for cabbage is bugs you, deep blue, silk worms and canker bacteria duct often arise and cause harm.

4. Harvest:

They have the same tiny cabbage vegetable cabbage tree but can reach a height of from 80 to 120 cm; each tree will for harvest from 150-170 the mini cabbage. 1 kg contains about 50-60 tiny cabbage and sold for very high prices.